Have you ever wondered…do animals feel love?
It’s not a question I would ask a wildlife biologist—anthropomorphism is frowned on in the scientific community. But I am an artist, not a scientist, so I get free license to think about these questions. (It’s one of the benefits of being an artist. Low pay…but you get away with a lot more.) Besides…it’s Valentines Day. And, I think the questions about what makes us human—and other creatures not—are interesting. Are we special because we feel complex emotions like love? Or are we just different—one species among many?
When I was a very small child, I asked my mother what love was. She told me that when you love someone very much, you care more about them than yourself. You would even give up your own life to save them if need be.
We’ve all seen enough Nature Shows to know there are many extraordinary things animals do to care for and protect their young or even their mates. Humans aren’t unique in that regard. But with animals, is it love? Or just self-interest—merely an instinct to pass on their genes? We’ll never know, of course, because we can’t ask them. Or at least…they can’t answer.
Of course, imagining that animals have human-style emotions is easier if the animals are cute, like penguins, polar bears, or meercats. But what about the ones that are not fluffy and cute, like insects? They may be beautiful…but they are so very different from us. Can you imagine they feel love?
Well, I surely have not answered the question of animal love. (Another benefit of art—you get to ask, but you don’t have to answer.)
But, here’s a parting thought. How do you know if someone really loves you? How do any of us know if people really feel love?
It is only because we can say the word? _____________________________________________________________________________
Leave a comment with your wild ideas about love, nature, Valentines Day, tufted hairgrass or anything you like! And, in case you missed it, check out my little video, Primordial Valentine, about the secret love life of the plant world. It’s only 2 minutes long. And there’s music.